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Originally posted by bartlebyyphonics bartlebyyphonics wrote:

Just remembering our instructions:


"... there is a very fine line between critique and bullying, and a healthy forum requires us to have SOME regard for the feelings of the person whose choices we're discussing, and it does no good to simply proclaim that anyone with hurt feelings is too sensitive. 


We don't want to hone our way to a sartotial monoculture any more than we already have. The criteria for a good post needn't be "would I wear this?" Variety is a very good thing.


Keep in mind that at any given time there are FAR more "lurkers" on the site than active members. 11 members vs 33 guests as of this writing. [Hollows writes this on 31.10.19 - today, 6 members, 35 guests and 10 search-bots - and I think the newest member may well be leaving now? or staying to learn about vintage American and amerikaji styles given the warm welcome?]

I do believe that the forum has a reputation for being elitist/snobbish, and that this reputation is not entirely undeserved. There tends to be little tolerance for deviations from our formula, and that scares off a lot of would-be contributors before they even sign up. The pool of regular posters is VERY small lately, and a little kindness could go a long way towards promoting growth and renewed interest.

It feels ridiculous to ask a group of (mostly) middle aged (mostly) men to exercise basic kindness, but the forum dies without that, regardless of storage limits. Do your best to keep the criticism constructive, and if someone calls you an asshole, resist the urge to feel like they just don't understand your charming ways. It might be both."




I "lurk". at my home laptop I'm logged in. During the  day I lurk on my phone, I'm sure there are more like me
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I’m not sure this is saying anything?
But I’m willing to guess, that a lot of guests, are members not signed in?
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There probably are a few who do that. I even lurk sitting next to my laptop. I don't want to fire it up all the time
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